2010 The year of the Flake

I said this on The Rookie's blog after a chick flaked on him. So far this month of July, I've been flaked on three times(by 3 different chicks). My biggest weakness is Outcome dependence and part of that has been flaking(this magnifies itself to gargantuan beta proportions when I haven't had ass in awhile). Even with the knowledge of "Game" and being able to read signs (low interest level, no call backs, etc), this year has been an embarrassing year of flaking for me, peep game.

• Had a chick flake on me saying her mother had an heart attack, and also she had to go to the gym etc, when it was all said and done she flaked on me 4 times
• Had a chick flake on me 4 times due to her job, her reasons were legitimate but at the end this chick wasn't worth it @ all(Picked her up one night after the club, she was laying in my bed and "hack-sawed" the shit outta me, leaving me with blueballs).
• Had a chick flake on me saying her brother relapsed back into drugs
• Had a chick flake on 5 times(aaarrrrgh), she was a Milf(hot), due to work and son.

Now you wondering, WTF, How can you let someone flake on you 4-5 times? It goes back to outcome dependence(and being desperate for some ass!) and not utilizing my gut and critical thinking skills. Honestly Some of the girls who flaked didn't lie but I can't excuse that. You see it's easy to talk about having an abundance mindset when you have it. It's another thing to follow it when you don't.

("This heffa better pick up the phone)

I just wanna apologize to anyone whose in the game for not being flaked on but letting it happen multiple times with multiple chicks, I'm ashamed of myself, and I know better. It's easy to let a flake go when you have 4-5 other girls on deck, but when your go through one at a time like I have been for most of the year it makes it hard. All I can say is it's been a rough year with flaking thus far, and honestly if a girl flakes multiple times it ain't worth it even if you do nail her.

 (I feel you bro, keep ya head up)

I have some theories on how to combat flaking but honestly none of them are full proof, I'll field test them more and post my results in a future blog, in the meantime I'm packing things up, I'm moving 2 miles down the road since Capo is going of to school, woo!

Solo