(My Cousin doing this thing)
A fellow Blogger asked a question if I felt there were Advantages or Disadvantages for being Black in the field when approaching another race. This is a question which comes up now and then in seduction forums. It's honestly a valid question especially if you approach woman that aren't your color (not only if your black, but white guy approaching other races etc), the problem is, usually the discussion in forums end up in Uber-generalizations and tons of racists stereotypes. There lot of guys in the community who are closet-racists. I'm not just saying this but if you ever read a thread on "race" before they get locked up quickly for a reason. It's not hard to see who is racists and who isn't(or just plain ignorant). I decided to do a Video Blog with Uncle T on this, I got some other Videos of him that we did last year which I will up as well eventually (this Video is unedited btw) I apologize for the shity quality.
Solo's Opinion
While I agree with Uncle T that now a days it doesn't matter and it's all about how you carry yourself. Especially @ the 2 minute mark were he is talking about How to dress etc. I disagree that having your shit together doesn't help @ the 3:25 mark, because in all honesty even if you know how to talk in a country club, having your shit together definitely will help you there, whether black or white. If your physically/financially/mentally together it's gonna give you an advantage over a broke guy with just solid game
But then I digress
I've heard of homeless guy with super tight game pulling chicks during the day and bone them, seen my buddy who dresses like a hobo(white guy), pull a chick within 30 minutes who had a boyfriend who wanted to get boned etc. etc. This topic can be over-analyzed to death and Uncle T and I just scarped the surface but also the deep inner game part, which is make sure you know how tailor your game.
The best quote on this is by Senor Fingerz of SoSuave.net
"Race doesn't really matter as long as you have confidence in yourself"
As a white guy, and this probably doesn't apply to all white guys, but it definitely applies to me. I will say I find it a lot easier to approach non-white women than I do approaching white women.
ReplyDeleteWhite women to me seem to feel the most entitled and have the highest bitch shields. Yes, I do still approach them, but my success rate is actually the lowest with them than with other races. And, I'm white.
This could go down to a lot things actually. I've dated more hispanic and black women in my life anyway, so I think I just naturally feel more confident around them which probably leads to a better frame/tighter game.
I will say that how much race matters in the field definitely relates to where you are. I'm sure it's less of an issue in the larger, more liberal and more racially diverse areas such as most major/big cities. Go to smaller, country-hick, backwoods bars and clubs and try to go and game, and I'm sure it will play a larger role in how the interactions play out.