First of, when I write blogs, I'm just sharing with yall my experiences from the field or dealing with these chicks. I don't consider myself an authority figure but a man just passing on his experiences, I try to be objective but a lot of times my bias come in due to my experiences and POV.
I'm gonna be straight to the point, Single mothers are out there now in epic proportions, doesn't mater black/white. If your a single guy with no kids don't date them seriously. If you do I'll tell you some warning signs. These are my experiences after dealing with nearly a 100+ mommies (some I smashed most I didn't).
- Baggage issues--Single mothers have more baggage issues then the single chick. Not only mentally but also physically at times. I've met single mothers who besides the kid have some other family or work issues as well. Her having a kid some will use sex against you as an excuse not to put out These ones are the ones were you hit the eject button asap
- Baby Daddy drama--Her babydaddy issues will always come up, whether he is an Ex-husband or some guy she was just messing with. These issues you don't have to deal with. Plus if the guy ever decided to get serious, she may give him another chance leaving you in the dust. Do you really wanna hear about why her Ex/BD isn't paying child support? I got Nexted by SM because I didn't care to listen to her divorce problem. "Sorry babe but I don't wanna hear that shit"
- Single moms can be hoes too--I use to think Single mothers, were "wholesome" and ready to settle down. some single mothers are cool and are very ready to settle down but some single mothers are just as hoiesh or even more hoeish then Single chicks. One of the last single mothers I talked to made no qualms about always having 3 booty calls on tap, come to find out she has had HPV (the warts kind) needless to say I didn't hit it NEXT!
- Flake-a-Rama-They will flake on you more then other chicks, because last minute situations will pop up. this can be very frustrating especially if your a single guy with no kids.
- Entitlement issues--Some single mothers feel their entitled to "prince charming", and think their on the same level on the dating pool as single chicks with no kids.
- You'll always be number 2--her kid/kids will come first, she won't be able to just go out one night or go on trips. Her whole week is scheduled around her "lil man" or "lil munchkin"
- Replacement daddy--even if she says she isn't sub-consciously she is always looking for a Replacement Daddy. Do you wanna take care of another dudes responsibility?
I'm gonna tell you straight up and you other guys better listen. I married a single mom. Was with her for 25 yrs before I kicked her out and divorced her. What they say on here is true. Her kids always came first and I came second despite the fact that I stepped up and took care of them. I gave them a good home, it cost me financially and I really paid my dues. I received little in return. All I was in the end was a paycheck. It was the biggest AFC thing I had ever done. It took the best years of my life from me and I can never get that back.
So, for you guys that get the ol oneitis for a single mom, don't fuckin go there. You will pay dearly brothers. Too much damage and baggage that you don't need. I cannot emphasize this enough. Take this advice to heart and let it sink in deeply. Don't get emotionally involved with single mothers. Because in the end when it's over, something will be missing....your soul.
I dated a single mom for about 2 years.. This post is 100% true.
ReplyDeletegood job cleaning up the writing.
ReplyDeleteone of my friends saw a number of single moms in a particular year. he told me that all of them were the freakiest. most just wanted a booty call, and happily grabbed his dick and shoved it in their asses. they seemed to LOVE anal. I say pound away, just don't get got.
Sounds like single moms are easy and good bangs, but you just have to be ready to walk away at anytime and don't let them try to suck you in. At least you know they like sex, right?
ReplyDeleteWhen I was doing the online thing I was shocked at how many single moms there were under 21.
sounds like most chicks. lol. on a serious tip, i steer clear of these girls now. straight up. you spend time with a couple, and yeah, you find they're either responsible and looking for replacement daddy, or irresponsible, a shitty mother, and maybe still looking for a replacement daddy.
ReplyDeleteworse yet, in a way, the type that think they can be just as great a parent as 2 good parents.....le siiiiiiigh.
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ReplyDeleteThe number of single mothers in this country is astronomical they can't go to clubs or out to meet people cause of their lil munchkin so were they gonna go? yup you guessed it online
I find it hilarious that these women complain about how hard it is dating as a single mom. Like they're as desirable as a woman with NO baggage. They don't want to go above and beyond. They seem not to realize all they are asking a single guy to put up with to be with them. Granted, I have little respect for a woman that puts the current boyfriend ahead of her own child/children, but they need to make the effort to find some kind of balance. Single guys have too many other options. All they can really offer a man is sex. If they're looking for someone that truly understands what their life is like, they should be looking for single dads.
ReplyDeleteTimothy thank you for bringing that up, this is part of the "entitlement issue" I didn't get into it so deep but I was just dealing with a single mother who would complain like it was so hard whilst we was breaking up i told her "do you think your the only single mother? get over yourself" I also gave her advice on the baggage thing, it makes me wonder though Timothy, do you think Single mothers would rather date a guy with kids who can relate or a single guy who doesn't have any?
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