Black Men and Fat White Girls(The Truth!)

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This topic has come up a lot recently whether online or in the flesh, The Soloist gives his .02 cents on this "outdated" topic

1. Low self esteem--typical on both sides but more so on the girl, popular white culture is brutal when it comes to their women and their size. It's been scientifically proven that "bigger" black women have higher self-esteem then "bigger" white women. A lot of white guys I know personally don't deal with a chick who is "big". While the definition is subjective, a black guy may look at a women who is 20 pounds overweight(or more) and call her thick (more or less depending on her build) while white guys are quick to call her fat. Truth is a lot of white guys don't like "voluptuous"(keyword being alot). However it's no secret that a lot of bigger white women will also spend money on their men to keep them happy. I know guys who literally lived rent free didn't have to pay for food or anything cause their women took care of them. These guys know that their in control and their women won't just leave them for someone else. However the biggest thing is, successful black guys i.e. educated, money, athlete, going to college, etc. Typically don't date these women, they may smash one here and there, but usually you won't see them with one for long term. The most disturbing thing is though, you may see these white women who won't date their own race(or black guys), because their not attracted to their own kind, which is totally bizarre to me, that always irks me. If you have a preference that's cool but to total "X" out your own race is disturbing.

2. Lack of standards--the truth is a lot of black men are "lax" on their standards. So you may see him with a bigger girl

3. He genuinely likes her-- a lot of black guys aren't as judgmental, and he may genuinely like the girl because of who she is and not just how she looks. Truth is a lot of white people are more shallow then black people. So while a girl may be "thicker" build

Thick or Fat?

4. Less attitude--a lot of black men feel that dealing with black women is to hard, so they rather resort to something easy, this is were white women typically have less attitude then black women also a lot of black women treat these women better because of how the women treat them

5, Give it up faster--Everyone knows fat chicks give it up faster then the hotties. Take a big girl out to Apple Bee's pump her with a couple drinks and half of appetizers and your laying pipe that night.

Once again these are general reasons, and it's important to note I'm generalizing. I hate to stereotype and generalize but the question got ask so much, and the topic came up so much. I felt I had to address it. We live in a country where damn near 60% of the people are overweight, not just black or white. On another note, you also see a lot of black guys with some fine ass white women and you actually see more white guys with bigger white women (and why not there more white men then black men)